Mistress Lexi

The Secret Life of a Dominatrix: The Inside Scoop

The Secret Life of a Dominatrix: The Inside Scoop

“BDSM is an abomination! DOMINATRIXES are evil people with evil intent!” Every time I hear the way individuals bash BDSM I just smirk and demeaningly chuckle at them. The fact of the matter is that none of those idiotic statements are even close to the truth. The truth is that their ignorance is the abomination. No one who TRULY understands BDSM is evil. The misconception is absurd. People compare BDSM and domestic abuse, but in reality, they aren’t even close to the same thing. No real Dominant inflicts pain out of anger. Nothing in BDSM is about being evil or angry. A submissive needs their Dominant. A submissive feels rejuvenated after their session. That probably seems hard to understand but as professional Mistresses, we know how to make the session therapeutic.

We are trained so well that we understand the psychology of the submissive mind from the inside out. There are individuals out there that claim to be “Dominatrixes” and take out their stress on clients. These unprofessional Dominatrixes have no idea what they’re doing and can actually be highly dangerous. Just one simple mistake can easily put someone in the emergency room. Holding the knowledge and experience of BDSM is rare. Being a professional Dominatrix means you are a Mistress, a Goddess, an UNATTAINABLE WOMAN! You must know all implements, all technique, what to do and what not to do. You have to be highly intelligent to be one of Us.

When I walk into Chicago Illusions I walk into paradise. I enter a Castle and Not just any Castle, a Castle where We are all one! Each and every one of Us is to be highly respected and obeyed. We have our submissive’s high on our presence. I’m proud to be a part of our High Class family. It is empowering when I wonder to myself… since there’s only one family like Us, are We endangered or limited edition. All of Us Mistresses are immaculate from head to toe; from Our beautiful hair to Our perfectly pedicured feet. We are kind, interesting, sexy, and stern. We are truly a different breed with no desire to be average. Therefore, We don’t tolerate being treated as if we are average. If anyone uses the wrong tone, or is disrespectful in any way they’re out!

I’ve had people ask me “Doesn’t being a dominatrix affect you?” The obvious answer is no. I enjoy what I do. I know we all love what we do because we’re all Lifestyle Mistresses. We are adrenalized when it comes to having variety and exploring new things. When you can take someone and snatch away their empty habits its literally breathtaking. Having the ability to help someone in a way no average woman can is a real gift. True Mistresses are misunderstood, but our intentions are nothing but sincere. BDSM isn’t all just whips and chains, it’s a wide range of acceptance, encouragement, and letting individuals be their true selves without any judgement! There is honestly no real way to describe our passion for BDSM, you’d have to see it to believe it… and maybe one day you will, if you have the privilege to.

 

Sincerely,

Mistress Lexi

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